Did you grow up learning that good girls don’t get angry? Did you learn at an early age that if you did what everyone wanted or expected from you, life seemed to go at least a little bit more smoothly? Those patterns of people-pleasing are deeply ingrained in our culture, particularly for women who are […]
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Do you have codependent or people-pleasing (a.k.a. “human doormat”) tendencies in your romantic relationships? That way of behaving affects your friendships, too! In the 6th book of the Born to Triumph series, Heal Your Toxic Friendships, you’ll learn how to identify the aspects of a healthy friendship so you know what to strive for, and
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Are you feeling overwhelmed by grief, pet loss, or divorce pain? Are you willing to try a radical new approach to feeling better, that you won’t find anywhere else? In the 7th book of the Born to Triumph series, Your Grief Relief: Heal the Void, we’re going to deconstruct your grieving habits, and then put
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Have you ever felt curious about what it means to be an earth angel or lightworker? Perhaps you wonder if you might secretly be one yourself, because you feel attracted to meditations, books, workshops and videos that are all about helping other people heal their lives. And yet, when you start questioning whether you could
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When I got the idea on 11/9/16 for my new book “America’s New Breed of Freedom Fighters,” [available now on Amazon for pre-order at http://bit.ly/NewBreedFreedomFighters] I quailed. As much as I knew I was qualified to write it, and that I could and should write it, I also wanted to push the idea away and
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Teenagers aren’t the only ones who go through periods of angst where it seems the whole world is against them and nothing will ever go right. We can pick up on that common attitude very easily without consciously realizing it, because a state of victimhood is rampant in our culture and has been for thousands
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There are times in life when we really are afraid of doing something, and yet we bow to the logic of those around us and those who trained us in our thinking habits, and we go ahead with it anyway. Then we feel proud of ourselves for defeating the fear. But if it’s really been
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One of the core principles of using the law of attraction to our advantage instead of unconsciously magnetizing results that we don’t really like or want, is to understand the power of focusing our thoughts so that we appreciate what we want to experience even before we get it. When we enter into a
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Wayne Dyer and others remind us that when we change the way we look at things, those things actually change. The reason is that our point of view or perception of circumstances, events, people and conditions colors absolutely everything. Within our perception are our judgments, labels and evaluations about the world and all that is
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I’ve written three books so far on the topic of happiness—actually, all my books, whether fiction or nonfiction, hold the intrinsic idea that we are meant to be happy beings, but we are the ones getting in the way. But how do we manage to do that? With all the self-help books, blogs like
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