stay positive!

Weekend Be-Happier Tip — don't be disagreeable

When you are stressed out, it’s easy to lose track of the way you want to act, and simply “react” when your buttons are pushed. Somebody says something rude to you, or something you disagree with, and you snap back at them. Instead of being disagreeable just because you disagree, here are 5 quick ways to be the nice guy/gal you know you want to be:

Weekend Be-Happier Tip — don't be disagreeable Read More »

Try tenderness

Reinforce it when someone’s behavior is to your liking. Too often, we only complain when we don’t like something. Flip that around and stop paying attention to the “Bad” — instead, look for absolutely everything “Good” you can find and PRAISE it! The natural inclination is for the other person to start doing more of what gets attention, even if it’s not a conscious decision.

Try tenderness Read More »