As part of my “stress relief” blogging, I frequently address the topic of codependency — aka people pleasing. Most people pleasers know who they are, and may even feel bitter about being this way. It can be a real drain on your energy to feel you have to juggle everyone’s needs at all times — while ignoring your own!
A prime place for people pleasing to cause problems is in romantic relationships. If you’re a people pleaser, you probably have a long history of ending up with guys who seemed sweet and fun at first, but quickly became very demanding and insistent on having their needs met at all times. On the surface, the match seems out of kilter, but when you look at the relationship dynamics in the engine of each person in the relationship, you see that both are no doubt acting out the same relationship they witnessed their parents struggling with when they were growing up. One person makes all the demands, the other mutters angrily but bows to the one who seems to wield all the power.
If you’re sick and tired of this old pattern of yours… if you are stuck in a crazy relationship right now and you’ve attempted to leave but always back down… I’ve got great news for you!
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