Category Archives: Success
Who killed your dream?
Are you leading the life of your dreams? Or somewhere along the way did you let someone convince you that what you yearned for was dumb, a stupid idea, something only a fool would strive for?
One of the deepest stresses of all time is when we de-self, or give up what is most important to us. Many times we assure ourselves that we’re just being “practical” – and then plod along through life unhappily doing work that is unfulfilling.
If this is a trap that sounds familiar to you, then you need to grab hold of a lifeline and get in touch with your inner dreams once more. You need to enrich yourself from the inside out — and I know a program that is absolutely wonderful for just that. I give it my highest recommendation. Learn what Bob Proctor can do for you — click here for info
your happiness guru,
Evelyn
What’s your stress level?
Is your head spinning with all that you need to take care of? Do you frequently have to ask people to repeat what they just said, because you were totally distracted by your thoughts? Do you sleep poorly, or want to stay in bed all day to avoid all that you need to take care of?
You may be so used to the stress load you carry that you aren’t even aware of it. It’s become “normal” for you, and yet stress is a silent killer. It causes so many diseases, and it also prevents you from fully enjoying your life.
Right now, pause, roll your shoulders back, let out a deep sigh and imagine that a genie just went POOOF! to all your work. Gone! All the chores, all the paperwork, all the crucial errands and phone calls… VANISHED!!! You are free. Completely free.
Enjoy the feeling. Smile to yourself as you imagine how you will live your days from now on. Picture it in great detail. Ask yourself what you would do for the rest of your life if money was no object. And if you didn’t have all the petty responsibilities that drag you down now.
Wow… bliss, isn’t it?
Guess what, though? You are the master of your own life. Like it or not, you’ve pretty much chosen what you have in front of you. It’s probably not all that bad, and certainly is better than most people in the world have, but you yearn for more. Your head bursts with all the ideas you have that could help other people. Maybe you have ideas for books to write. Or films you’d like to make. Or inventions that you know would really make people’s lives easier or more fun or better in some way.
What’s stopping you from doing those things now?
I’ll tell you something. Even if a gazillion dollars dropped out of the sky and landed in my lap, I would still be writing and doing the things I love. I already lead my dream life. And I love it! Yeah, sure, the economy isn’t the best, but I feel confident that I will be okay. And I’ll tell you a secret — one of the reasons I feel so great is that there is a program I listen to every day. I’ve studied it and I incorporate it into my life, and I’m still learning because it is packed with rich information. The program used to cost $2,000 but the digital version is priced at a small fraction of that. If you want to know more about it and see if The Secret Science of Getting Rich is for you — click here
your happiness guru,
Evelyn
PS The program gets my highest recommendation and I feel confident you will love it as much as I do.
Weekend Be-Happier Tip #22
Start your engines!
Last Sunday I watched part of the Indy 500 Qualifying Race as they prepared for this coming Sunday’s annual Memorial Day Indianapolis 500 Race. During the qualifier, one of the racers had to get some work done on his car, and the announcer commented afterwards, “Now that’s a happy race car!”
Hey, music for my ears — this happiness guru smiled. And later, they discussed the challenge another race car driver would have when his “stressed windsock” would be indicating drag in the wrong direction. Again, a word I’m familiar with: stress!
So I say to you: start your engines! Do what you need to do this weekend to clear the sludge in your engine, to fuel up your energy for coming tasks, and make sure you’re ready to tackle the next race of your life. We pay attention to all that goes on behind the scenes in big events like the Indy 500, but then when we have a “big event” of our own it’s easy to shortchange the crucial details. Make a list of the key points you need to take care of on a project that’s important to you, and give it all the care that the pit crew does to make that a happy race car.
For my USA fans, have a safe and sane Memorial Day Weekend! Everybody, enjoy the weekend and I’ll see you back here on Monday.
your happiness guru,
Evelyn
My Guest Blogger Is Rules Expert Sally Shields
My guest blogger today is author Sally Shields, who’s going to explain how to fix three common mistakes when you collaborate on a project with someone else.
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3 Big Mistakes You Can Make in Collaboration and How to Correct Them
by Sally Shields
Writing is a lonely and difficult business. When you’re all alone with a computer in the middle of the night and you can’t decide if your character should get married or throw herself under a double-decker bus, it would be nice to have someone to ask. When you’re pretty sure that what you’ve just written is either the worst rubbish any mind ever conceived or a stroke of Shakespearian genius, you might feel the need for a second opinion. When you know exactly how the screenplay starts and how it ends but you’re missing that teensy part called “the middle,” the thought may well cross your mind that what you need is—a collaborator!
Lots of writers work with collaborators. From screenwriting comedy teams to textbook authors, writing is not always best done alone, wallowing in self-pity. And so, many innocent, doe-eyed writers enter into collaboration, without thoroughly considering the consequences of this monumental decision. If your writing is important to you, you must make sure that the collaboration is right for you. And when you do find someone who seems to be that perfect partner, is it always smooth sailing? Absolutely not!
Below are three mistakes that you can make inadvertently when collaborating, and some of the steps that you can take to avoid them, and safeguard yourself from potential disaster. Let’s begin.
1. Mistake #1:
Rely on friendship to carry you through a collaborative process
Solution: Never trust anything to smiling handshakes (no matter how much you like your collaborator!). Co-authoring is a HUGE nightmare if one party ends up working harder than the other, or not delivering content promptly, or if your collaborator suddenly does a 180 and ends up boiling a bunny. (For those of you innocent bunnies who were born after 1987, consider adding “Fatal Attraction” to your Netflix queue.)
Mistake #2:
Fail to copyright your original work
Solution: You have a great idea for a project, (or, if you’re the one who came up with The BIG IDEA), write it down, work on it as much as you can on your own, and apply for a copyright with the US Copyright office. It doesn’t matter how raw a form it’s in, this is your brainchild, your hobbyhorse, your magnum opus, your intellectual property, and anything else that comes from it can be labeled a derivative work and will safeguard you from any future parties who may try to claim your efforts as their own.
The main points are (1) that ideas can be and are easily stolen and (2) writers must protect themselves. Although you cannot copyright ideas, you can copyright expressions of ideas i.e., writings, drawings, musical compositions, etc.—tangible forms or expressions of this nature. So if you have a great idea, write about it and register it for copyright protection. However, someone else can also write about that same idea and register the copyright provided he or she doesn’t express it the exact same way you did. As well, copyright exists from the time of its creation, so if you have a great idea and write about it, the time of its conception should be documented on your computer. Then be circumspect; discuss it only with those you completely trust and keep those discussions to the bare minimum until you’ve reduced it to paper and registered it with the US Copyright Office.
Mistake #3:
Get sloppy with your email communication
Solution: Communication in which human beings would get in the same place and speak in such a way that they could hear each other directly. True story! Then Albert Einstein or Marie Curie or one of those smart inventor types (Edison?) came up with a new tool. It was called a “telephone.” Now, people could talk to each other without leaving home, and without having to smell each other’s cooking! Later, everyone started sending emails. You don’t have to see anyone, you don’t have to talk to them. It’s perfect, right? LOL! However, one of the great dangers of email is that it’s too fast. Case in point: you read a message from your collaborator suggesting you revise the third chapter. You, on the other hand, think it’s a masterpiece. Also, the third section is in your area of expertise and your collaborator knows nothing about it. Not only that, but you stipulated in your original written scope of work that the third episode was solely your responsibility. So you fire off an email: “3rd. chap fine, leave it.” Guess how much respect your collaborator feels from this missive? Guess how nicely she feels about it. Maybe you meant it in funny way, so you added a smiley. Think that caused her to grin? Think again. Once the context of full human communiqué is stripped away, meaning is lost. You have to go out of your way out to explain what you mean, to imagine yourself receiving the email. Is it truly clear? Is it respectful?
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your happiness guru,
Evelyn

