Category Archives: Self Esteem

Be-Happier Tip: Advance Confidently

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"Forget Your Troubles"

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This time of year, we are especially prone to a lot of hurry and rush, and indecision and worry often tag along with that mode.

It can be easy to feel that it must be normal to question yourself, to fret about whether you’ve got the right goals, or maybe you should change direction midstream in your career or relationship.

Henry David Thoroeau presents us with the timeless gift of being confident and self-assured:  after spending over 2 years at Walden Pond, he suggests that if we would only advance confidently in the direction of our dreams, then the Universe responds by drawing toward us all that we need.

So, this season, make a commitment to yourself that you will shrug off your stress and worries, and instead breathe in deeply and slowly… understand that the power that creates worlds flows through you (Thank you, Abraham, for that insight) and then… ADVANCE CONFIDENTLY knowing that what you think about and envision will come to pass.

to your happiness and success,

Evelyn

PS Learn more about leaving behind worry, anxiety and stress– read my Amazon bestselling book: “FORGET YOUR TROUBLES: Enjoy Your Life Today” – see the links to the right of this post to buy at Amazon.

Be-Happier Tip: Take A Risk!

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Feeling stressed out? Burdened by worries after watching the news? Wondering if your life could possibly get any better, or if you’re on a downward trend that won’t end?  Well, hey – you better snap out of that kind of negative thinking because it’s aging you fast.  This video will help you perk up, and in the meantime, think about what you really want to be doing in life.  Really consider your dreams as the special signals or messages from your Inner Self. Too often, while growing up, well-meaning parents and teachers stomp out the dreams we all have and tell us to be more practical.  But you don’t have to stick to that agenda, even if it has been a life-long one!

I feel that each person on this planet owes it to himself or herself to be authentic!  If you don’t live YOUR life fully, then who will? Go ahead and answer the question, and enjoy the music. Take a chance on YOU this weekend and do something you truly enjoy that makes you feel good inside. Okay, so what are you going to do that involves taking some kind of risk (not necessarily a foolhardy physical risk, but perhaps risking being laughed at or told you are “too old” to do that)?

Oprah’s farewell message

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Did you know that Oprah never missed a single day of showing up for her televised talk show? Even when she didn’t feel like getting up early and going to the studio. “Something in me connected with each of you in a way that allowed me to see myself in you and you in me,” Winfrey said during her final broadcast of “The Oprah Winfrey Show” today. “I listened and grew,” she said, “and I know you grew along with me.”

After confiding that this show turned out to be her calling, to teach and be of service to others, Oprah asked: “What is YOUR calling?” She explained that it’s all about finding what your passion is, and added, “It lights you up and lets you know you are exactly where you’re supposed to be, doing what you’re supposed to be doing.”

She said, “Each one of you has your OWN platform…. Yours is wherever you are, with your own reach.”

Oprah suggested that each person should “start embracing the life that is calling you and use your life to serve the world.”

I know that many people are confused about what their purpose in life is, and get it mixed up with the different roles they might play such as child, parent, neighbor, friend, coworker, employer, etc.

If you are still searching for a way to add meaning to your life, I highly recommend learning from a master teacher – click here to get access to free videos, and learn more about the Six Minutes to Success

How to cope with transitions

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Most people don’t like change. It’s that simple. Even if their situation is less than perfect, they’ll hang on to it for life, just to avoid the uncomfortable feelings that change can bring.

The problem is, we don’t learn about transitions as kids, so we never grow up with the tools of change in our tool kit for handling life.

But you don’t have to stay that way — learn how to embrace change as a possibility for growth.

See transitions in your life as moving from a stage or plateau that you’ve outgrown and bravely setting out for the new “world” of your life.

With faith in yourself and a vision of the goal you want, you’ll be able to transition smoothly into the next phase.

Learn more about building your self-esteem so you can cope with change – and get free gifts from one of my favorite teachers, Dr. Joe Rubino – click here to claim your gifts

Let Dr Joe explain why he says “Increasing the Quality of your Life has Never been So EASY!”

Until next blog – to your happiness and success,

Evelyn Brooks