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My Guest Blogger is Rebecca Hanson

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“Please help me bring back the love of my life.”

Part one of a two-part series – part two will be posted tomorrow.

I know that many people are under a lot of stress because they don’t have the romantic relationship they wish for.

My guest blogger today is Rebecca Hanson from the Global Law of Attraction Training Center and I know you’ll enjoy this information about relationships. Here’s Rebecca:

Often I receive emails asking me how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a certain person–usually for romatic purposes. One woman, in her 40′s, wrote to me this week and has given me permission to share some of our correspondence with you. Perhaps you (or someone you know) will recognize the feelings expressed here:

“Please can you help me understand how to bring back the love of my life. We only dated for a short time but I know he is the one. He has been hurt badly and didn’t want to end things with me but felt he had to because he was frightened he would be hurt again. It was a very emotional ending for both of us.I love him so much that I let him go and I respect him so I have stayed away to give him time and space. We have been apart for three months. In my heart I know that we are meant to be together but even though I was so sad and in despair I still felt loving and kindness towards him and my thoughts were always hopeful. And in my longing and praying several ‘co-incidences’ have happened.

Not long after we split up I started searching the web for anything that could give me advice about winning back the man I love and discovered the Law of Attraction… Can you help me?”


Sometimes a man will write to me in a similar vein:  ”I’m in love with this wonderful (or beautiful) woman. I know she is the one for me. Our paths have crossed often. How can I get her to notice me (or go out with me)?”

In part one of this two-part series, we’ll look at why you are NOT in a relationship with the “love of your dreams.” In part two [come back to this blog tomorrow!] we’ll look at what to do when a seemingly “perfect partnership” falls apart. I hope that while reading both you will also understand how the Law of Attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!

Part one: “Why am I NOT in a relationship with the love of my life? What’s happening here? Is the Law of Attraction at work?” Of course it is!

The Law of Attraction is always reflecting back to you your vibration. Remember:

You can know what you are vibrating by observing what IS
showing up in your life.

When you think you are in love with someone—and are sure they are “the one,” but cannot seem to convince him or her or attract him or her, then they are NOT “the one”. If they were, you would already be in a relationship with them–a natural, mutual, harmonious relationship that both of you equally gravitated toward.

Two scenarios are really at play here:

You are in love with the idea of this person being in love with you. That someone with these physical attributes, or character traits, or successes in life could want to be with you is an exhilarating idea.

What often happens is that you meet someone who has five (or ten) characteristics that you are looking for in your ideal partner and you assume that he or she is your “ideal mate.” You think, “This is it! I’ve found ‘the one’ for me for the rest of my life.” However, the attraction just doesn’t seem mutual and you do not understand why. Didn’t the Law of Attraction bring them to you? Well, the real question is are they looking for someone like you? Are you a vibrational match for this person?

Remember that the person you are looking at may only appear to have the qualities you desire. Underneath the exterior clothing of beauty and success, there may be person with entirely different goals, beliefs and core values than yours. Even if you are very similar, what is he or she looking for? The role of their ideal mate may be very different from one you would truly like to play.

The second scenario goes like this:

You are in love with the idea of being “allowed” to love this person Seeing their potential and their needs, you may also see how “helpful” you could be for them as a mate. Searching for love with this motive is especially dangerous because, sadly, more often than not there is simply an insecure, life-draining person there, hoping to find someone to give their life meaning and purpose. (Not a healthy thought.) Victims attract someone who can make them a victim again. The poor attract someone who can enable them to continue in their poverty. The Law of Attraction is not fooled, nor can it be manipulated through words and expressions of desires that are not in alignment with the truth.

But you see so many people around you happy and in love, why does it not come your way?

Here is how the Law of Attraction does work, and how you can make it work for you:

In order to attract the “ideal partner”– someone who is in vibrational harmony with who you are–you must be what you seek.

Are you looking for someone who is kind? You must be kind. Do you want someone with good looks? You must care about how you look. Do you want someone who will make a commitment to you? Ask yourself, “Do I keep commitments?” Do you want someone who is successful? Ask your self, “Am I vibrating success?”

Remember, the Law of Attraction is bringing to you exactly what you are vibrating. If you want something different in your life, you must change yourself–your vibration. It’s an inside job and you can only change yourself– you can’t change someone else’s vibration.

I referred to the second scenario as especially dangerous for this reason exactly – you can’t change someone else, and while trying to do so you stop concentrating on yourself, stalling any change and growth that may need to occur in you.

You CAN attract your ideal partner. You CAN find joy in a healthy relationship. Just start with yourself:

KNOW yourself
ACCEPT yourself
HONOR yourself
TRUST yourself
LOVE yourself

When you do, the most perfect relationships happen in a perfectly natural way.

Why? Because your healthy relationship with yourself is reflected in your healthy relationship with that significant other. [© 2003-2010 R. Hanson Enterprises Inc.]

To learn more about Rebecca Hanson, click here.

See you tomorrow with part 2 of this informative series.

your happiness guru,

Evelyn

My Guest Blogger Is Rules Expert Sally Shields

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My guest blogger today is author Sally Shields, who’s going to explain how to fix three common mistakes when you collaborate on a project with someone else.

But first, I want to tell you that RIGHT NOWwe are all celebrating the official launch of Sally Shields’ new and highly acclaimed book, The Collaborator Rules!

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Let’s help Sally reach the #1 position on Amazon.com. And, for helping, we’re going to reward you in a big, no make that HUGE way!

This offer requires the tiniest investment, but will bring you a return beyond belief:  for only $12.95 you can get a copy of The Collaborator Rules …and over 40 free gifts!!!!

Now here’s Sally with tips to get you started–

3 Big Mistakes You Can Make in Collaboration and How to Correct Them

by Sally Shields

Writing is a lonely and difficult business. When you’re all alone with a computer in the middle of the night and you can’t decide if your character should get married or throw herself under a double-decker bus, it would be nice to have someone to ask. When you’re pretty sure that what you’ve just written is either the worst rubbish any mind ever conceived or a stroke of Shakespearian genius, you might feel the need for a second opinion. When you know exactly how the screenplay starts and how it ends but you’re missing that teensy part called “the middle,” the thought may well cross your mind that what you need is—a collaborator!


Lots of writers work with collaborators. From screenwriting comedy teams to textbook authors, writing is not always best done alone, wallowing in self-pity. And so, many innocent, doe-eyed writers enter into collaboration, without thoroughly considering the consequences of this monumental decision. If your writing is important to you, you must make sure that the collaboration is right for you. And when you do find someone who seems to be that perfect partner, is it always smooth sailing? Absolutely not!


Below are three mistakes that you can make inadvertently when collaborating, and some of the steps that you can take to avoid them, and safeguard yourself from potential disaster. Let’s begin.

1. Mistake #1:
Rely on friendship to carry you through a collaborative process

Solution: Never trust anything to smiling  handshakes (no matter how much you like your collaborator!).  Co-authoring is a HUGE nightmare if one party ends up working harder than the other, or not delivering content promptly, or if your collaborator suddenly does a 180 and ends up boiling a bunny. (For those of you innocent bunnies who were born after 1987, consider adding “Fatal Attraction” to your Netflix queue.)

Mistake #2:
Fail to copyright your original work

Solution: You have a great idea for a project, (or, if you’re the one who came up with The BIG IDEA), write it down, work on it as much as you can on your own, and apply for a copyright with the US Copyright office. It doesn’t matter how raw a form it’s in, this is your brainchild, your hobbyhorse, your magnum opus, your intellectual property, and anything else that comes from it can be labeled a derivative work and will safeguard you from any future parties who may try to claim your efforts as their own.

The main points are (1) that ideas can be and are easily stolen and (2) writers must protect themselves. Although you cannot copyright ideas, you can copyright expressions of ideas i.e., writings, drawings, musical compositions, etc.—tangible forms or expressions of this nature. So if you have a great idea, write about it and register it for copyright protection. However, someone else can also write about that same idea and register the copyright provided he or she doesn’t express it the exact same way you did. As well, copyright exists from the time of its creation, so if you have a great idea and write about it, the time of its conception should be documented on your computer. Then be circumspect; discuss it only with those you completely trust and keep those discussions to the bare minimum until you’ve reduced it to paper and registered it with the US Copyright Office.

Mistake #3:
Get sloppy with your email communication

Solution:  Communication in which human beings would get in the same place and speak in such a way that they could hear each other directly. True story! Then Albert Einstein or Marie Curie or one of those smart inventor types (Edison?) came up with a new tool. It was called a “telephone.” Now, people could talk to each other without leaving home, and without having to smell each other’s cooking! Later, everyone started sending emails. You don’t have to see anyone, you don’t have to talk to them. It’s perfect, right? LOL! However, one of the great dangers of email is that it’s too fast. Case in point: you read a message from your collaborator suggesting you revise the third chapter. You, on the other hand, think it’s a masterpiece. Also, the third section is in your area of expertise and your collaborator knows nothing about it. Not only that, but you stipulated in your original written scope of work that the third episode was solely your responsibility. So you fire off an email: “3rd. chap fine, leave it.” Guess how much respect your collaborator feels from this missive?  Guess how nicely she feels about it. Maybe you meant it in funny way, so you added a smiley. Think that caused her to grin? Think again. Once the context of full human communiqué is stripped away, meaning is lost. You have to go out of your way out to explain what you mean, to imagine yourself receiving the email.  Is it truly clear? Is it respectful?

Learn more in Sally’s new book. Please share this offer with your friends and  family. It’s easy… just share this blog post with your social media lists and they can get in on the many gifts we have made available for them today: http://www.collaboratorrules.com/specialoffer

your happiness guru,

Evelyn

Finally! The Relationship of Your Dreams

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I’m pleased to introduce  my special guest blogger today –

Rebecca Hanson from the Global Law of Attraction Training Center™


Finally! The Relationship(s) of Your Dreams
This single most common misperception is something that even experienced Law of Attraction specialists are unaware of. Once you understand how this misperception destroys any chance you have at attracting long lasting, highly satisfying relationships, you’ll never be caught in that trap again!

Since it is easier to show you than to tell you about this, please take a sheet of paper and divide it into three columns.

Label the columns like this:

Column 1: People I Love & Enjoy

Column 2: People I Feel Neutral About

Column 3: People I Dislike or Avoid

Do that now….

Next, ask your self a series of questions:

1. Didn’t some of the people in Column 3 once reside in Column 1?

2. Didn’t some of the people in Column 1 formerly reside in Column 2?

3. Or maybe they were once in Column 3….

4. How do I decide who is in Column 1 and what moves them into Column 3?

Becoming aware of how we select our friends/lovers, enemies and otherwise, is the first step in understanding the misperception.

The Misperception Occurs

There’s nothing wrong with creating a strong Desire Statement about what we want in all our relationships–and it is a big step forward from complaining about what we don’t like.

Again, there’s nothing wrong with keeping our focus on all the positive attributes we are looking for in that partner.

There’s nothing wrong with deciding that someone does not have enough positive traits, to moving on to meet the next person.

But, when we find some one who does line up with most of the desirable traits–we exaggerate them to the point of obscuring all their faults and disadvantages. We allow our “feel-good-feelings” to soar! Over and over we tell our selves and others: ”This THE ONE!”

Then, after some time, we begin to notice unattractive characteristics. We make something minor into a big defect, ignoring all the good qualities. We start noticing these irritants more and more. Eventually we ask ourselves, “How did I get into this situation…AGAIN?” Pretty soon, that person is moved into Column 3 as a person we want to avoid. If this person was our spouse or mate, we get a divorce and enter into battle for property or custody and eventually that person becomes a person we despise or hate!

Here’s the Fatal Flaw: We exaggerated their positive character traits and we exaggerated their negative characteristics. We made them All Good and Wonderful or Completely Bad and Wretched!

Every time there is an exaggeration of
good or bad qualities, there is a misperception of facts;
a ‘twisting of the lens of perception.’

If you want to have discernment–to have the ability to perceive an actual situation–you must make a strong decision to quit submitting to exaggeration.

Exaggeration is our Human Default Mode. It’s what we were born with. As long as we don’t recognize this particular trait, we are bound to keep repeating relationships that follow a pattern of disappointment.

How Exaggeration Affects Our Ability to Attract

Most teachings about the Law of Attraction encourage us to keep our focus ONLY on what we want. That’s great when you are a novice and it is certainly an improvement over focusing on what we don’t want.

But, running under the surface are negative feelings, emotions, vibrations which continue to emit low frequency vibrations which counteract and nullify our positive vibrations.

Let’s look at our three column lists. Circle one name in Column 3 that stands out to you. What emotion does this person evoke when you think about them? Write it down.

Next, bring forward a copy of the Comprehensive Emotional Scale. (Note from Evelyn: It’s a Word .doc that will open when you click the link)

Find that emotion and write the line number next to that person’s name.

If this emotion resides below Line Seven, then it is a negative, hurtful, destructive emotion and it IS going to negate some of your wonderful positive desires!

Look at Column 1: is there someone on this list whom you have exaggerated and embellished their good traits?  If so, you are feeling good about an imaginary person–not the real person who is certain to be a blend of positive and negative traits–not all one way.

Feel-good-feelings based on an illusion are not above Line 8 (the line of demarcation between constructive and destructive emotions.) They carry the seeds for “disappointment”–Line 13 on our Comprehensive Emotional Scale.

The bottom line is this:

If you want to be able to attract healthy, long-lasting,
satisfying relationships, you must make a
deliberate, strong, firm decision
to quit submitting to exaggerations.

What About Column 3?

In order to break the cycle of recurring negative relationships, you must find a way to neutralize everyone in Column 3: ”People I Dislike or Avoid.” Unforgiveness, anger, hatred or avoidance for even one person can contaminate your vibration and ruin your chance at a good healthy relationship.

Here are some steps we encourage you to consider:

1. Self-Awareness and acknowledgement: ”As a Human, my default setting is exaggeration.”

2. Make a DELIBERATE, FIRM, STRONG decision, “I am now aware of this tendency and make a firm decision to stop my mind before it goes that far again.”

3. Set your intention: ”My intention is to clean up my energy and have my vibration completely free of contaminating negative emotions.”

4. Ask your Higher Power, Source or God for help. The same energy that created the illusion cannot dissolve it. We need a higher more powerful energy to help us.

5. Get serious about applying the Law of Attraction in EVERY area of your life and at deeper and deeper levels–that’s why we created our Certified Law of Attraction Practitioners’ Program. The effectiveness of this Program is nothing short of a miracle. Over and over, we receive letters of thanks and appreciation from our Practitioners–they had NO IDEA how deeply the Practitioners’ Program would change them!

Learn more about Rebecca and the Certified Law of Attraction Practitioners’ Program — click here

I hope you’ve enjoyed this article from Rebecca Hanson, and gained new insight into your relationships!

your happiness guru,

Evelyn

My guest blogger is Peggy McColl

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I’m betting that it’s the one “viral explosion” you’ll LOVE to get…

My friend Peggy McColl has a new book out. Now if you’ve been with me any length of time, you know how fussy I am about who and what I recommend to you. There’s an endless parade of people wanting me to promote THEIR products to MY friends, but I only pass along the cream of the crop.

Peggy McColl — in case you’re not already aware — is an amazingly successful coach and New York Times bestselling author. Perhaps you’ve read some of her amazing books like “21 Distinctions of Wealth” or “Your Destiny Switch,” or taken one of her very popular courses. (I’ve done all of that!) I knew she had been working on her SEVENTH book and I’ve been anxiously awaiting  its release. It’s today! And I’m pleased to have her as my guest blogger today so she can tell you about her latest book.

Hey there,

Whether your goal is to increase sales, build your brand and your business, or simply raise awareness of your favorite cause and spread a message of good will … I believe you can reach an extraordinary number of people in record time following the program I share with you in my latest book.

In “Viral Explosions,” I explain in simple step by step language, every one of the strategies I use to market my own products. These are the time-tested strategies I teach to thousands of clients and students around the globe.

When you order the book today, you’ll get a virtual gift basket of valuable goodies.

Learn more here:

http://viralexplosions.com/book/

To your success!

Peggy McColl

My guest blogger is DailyOM co-founder Scott Blum

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I’m pleased to introduce you to Scott Blum, the co-founder of DailyOm. Be sure to check out their articles at dailyom.com.

Here is Scott, to tell you about his exciting book launch today:

My #1 best-selling e-book is now available as an expanded-edition hardcover –  I added two more chapters.

This  printed edition of Summer’s Path presents the remarkable story of Don Newport, an engineer who comes face-to-face with his personal destiny under extraordinary circumstances. After losing his job and his health insurance, Don learns that he has a terminal disease, with only a few months left to live. On his deathbed, he meets Robert, a brazen angel of death who promises to help him with a graceful exit. As Don prepares to say his last goodbyes to his loving wife, Robert attempts to change Don’s perspective about his mortality and proposes an exceptionally unique option.

By the way, Summer’s Path is the prequel to the best-selling book Waiting for Autumn.

Click here for Summer’s Path by Scott Blum

SPECIAL OFFER: Order Summer’s Path and enter to win a summer retreat for two at the exquisite Canyon Ranch Resort.

Over 120 bonus gifts for everyone, with book purchase.

Thanks!

Scott